I feel like I should go back and find some of the moments that gave Kalni and others this impression...just to see if there are more reminders and warning sings there in terms of my W...I have to admit that some of the parallels just scare me...
My SIL once told me that her friends used to call my W "the bitch" when they were in high school...While I have seen my W's darkside - I don't think I would ever have described her that way...even now I'm reluctant to...since I see more pain in her than anything - especially underlying her anger.
