Thanks for the advice on if H returns home how to deal with OW and son. I've been struggling with this lately feeling like its hopeless b/c H will not want to separate from his son and I will not want him to still contact OW about son.
Any other advice from anyone on how best to proceed to make sure this doesn't happen again and to still have H see his son? OW of course doesn't want son to have anything to do with me and I kinda don't want to have anything to do with her son b/c she will make my life a living hell.
