For the Guy with Kids and a WW Twenty One

[hopeful4her]

I was reading over on Yenko's thread. I think our spouses are very similar. His is more vocal on her feelings for him. She does love him, even though she gave him the ILYNILWY thing. She loves him, just not the way a wife should love a husband.

Sounds just like my wife. I know she loves me, just not like a wife should. She knows we have a connection like no one else is going to give her. She's not going to TELL me, because she doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. I know her.

His wife told him to 'let her go'.

Mine has told me the same, and I believe that I'm just now doing that. Both of our wives also believe that we could never trust them again or truly forgive them for the affair they have had.

I think its THEM that cannot trust themselves again or forgive themselves.