Hi Yoyo, appreciate you stopping by. I do have mixed feelings. I know the right ethical thing to do but I also know that of the negative impact it will have on all of us.
I do know that they will absolutely be fired since the OW works directly for my H and it is in our code of ethics. Other people have got fired for this. The reason is because it could put the company in liability, something your H should be careful of. His OW/secretary could start screaming "sexual harassment" and put the business in jeopardy.
I cannot believe your H exposed his daughters to the OW? They really are in a fog. I know how hurt my girls are by all of this. My D15 has not been the same since H moved. He took away the last of her childish innocence. She was a really good kid and not exposed to anything like this. We (meaning me and my H) always held her accountable and raised her to be honest. Now my D questions how her father was a role model for her and then doing this?
I did have a laugh about the part about H wearing a new "rug". OMG I don't think I have ever seen a good hairpiece. And it is so sexy nowadays when men shave their heads. I was LOL.
I have been following your thread and you have really held yourself with dignity through this. I have a tough time with my emotions. You should be proud of yourself no matter what your H is doing. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
