So is it a "dissolution" then? That's what it's called in Ohio - when you basically agree on everything without attorneys battling it out, but you have an attorney throw in all the legalese.
You know, if it's something like that, the ONE good thing about it is that you don't end up fighting in court - typically that turns into digging up every little bit of dirt, and getting extremely dirty and nasty - typically ruins ANY good feelings you might ever possibly have.
I'm really sorry to hear where you are, but really glad to know you're OK. I dropped the ultimatum, and if I found out about another date, I will be right with you. I've offered a dissolution to W - said I would be willing to discuss/negotiate, and it would only take 30 days in Ohio to be final, but she said she didn't think it would adequately protect her.
Anyway, unfortunately, I may be right with you pretty soon - W's biggest issue is that she is self-destructively stubborn. She would go through divorce, and lose everything, just to do it.
I'll be thinking and praying for you - I hope you feel like me. My conscience is completely clear - I have done EVERYTHING humanly possible to save this relationship.
