Turns out tomorrow is an out-of-uniform day too, they were just surprised with that today. And I was able to talk with her and she brought clothes with her to the choir event, so I don't have to go running around.
But I won't see her from last night until tomorrow night--I hate this part. Does it ever get easier?
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012