Nope...we are working on our settlement together. I have the draft in my hands. As soon as I add what we agreed to last week, I'll send it back for his final agreement. After that, when he can make time in his schedule, we'll file.
We are only using one attorney (hopefully), mine. So, I have to file. But, I didn't choose this so I intend to make him go with me to turn in the paperwork, etc. Should be very simple after that...90 days tops from start to finish.
I've given up the DBing to save the marriage mostly...except for the "dropping the rope" part. I don't see anyway to save a marriage when there's another person involved. I know there's a chance that the R they have won't last, but I can't just hang here and wait. I'm not made that way! So, I'll keep working on moving on...and, I'm doing just fine!!!
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
