Yep, I'm lucky - I have the kids 3.5 days of the week, and keep them when they are sick, when W wants to work - I own my own company so have some flexibility.
I gave my ultimatum last Monday - week and a half. Since then, nothing has been said, but I get kids back on Friday, and they tell me everything.
Glad you're doing better - I was doing great last night, and got a punch in the stomach today. My kids attend a private school (nothing swanky) and the administrator called and left a message for W saying the letter she requested was ready. I'm just worried - I pay ALL the bills, including the school bill - and I can't imagine what she'd need from them, except maybe a financial statement to try and use in court. She thinks public school is "good enough" - but our schools around here stink.
