I read that on your thread the other day.

Your response surprised me.

I'm pretty sure that I'll stick with having separate Christmas. I know the kids may want to spend it together, but I'm going to stick with it. I've thought about asking her why she thought we might spend it together, but I don't think I will. I don't think she'll give me an honest answer anyway.

I'm not dwelling on it. I was just surprised she was assuming we would spend it together. Other people saw it coming and I didn't.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."