Hi Frank: I have been reading your post, and I only have one question.
WTH are you allowing your W to come over in the morning? IMHO, she gave up the right to share in the mornings w/ you and your D's the moment she walked out the door.
In the words of Nancy Reagan, JUST SAY NO. It is not fair to you or your D's for your W to continue to come and go as she pleases w/ no repercussions for her actions.
Right now, it is your job to protect your D's. You have to tell her no. NOW. Not tomorrow, not next week. No more mornings. No more family gatherings.
She wants to have a full and rich life? Well fine, but that does not need to include the family she left behind. She needs to feel the sting of her actions, and she is not going to do that if you continue to allow this to happen.
Hon...take some of the power back.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
