OK. So. First mike, I think i got some splinters from that 2 x 4.
sorry BBJ..flashback for me..
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I don't know how to cut him off entirely at this point. He does not have a home!
I see him with no home as his problem..he is choosing this..so why "fix it" for him
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He said he prob. won't be able to have the kids at his house immediately b/c of the renovations he will need to do. (He bought a crappy house!)
another problem for him..he better call in the troops and work like mad.
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I am sure he thinks he can come to the house to do his 'time' with the kids. If he has to put them to bed at night and doesn't have anywhere to sleep, they will have to sleep at my house...
Thoughts on how to enforce the boundary when he doesn't have a place to take the kids. Thanks.
tell the kids..he can take them to his mom and dads for his visitation or he can just miss out on his visitation until he has a suitable place for them to visit.
and the MIL..I disagree on..MIL's like you have described..are controllers. They helped make these monsters we fell for..THAT MIL needs to have a boundary in place. You did not marry MIL..I really don't want to get started on Bitchhh MIL's..
let him go..drop da rope..
not a 2x4 for you BBJ..though I did just smack your MIL up side da head with one.
