That's a tough question. I was in that situation not too long ago and I decided to not make contact but my W did call, I told her that everything was fine but if anything changes I'll give you a call, she called again a few hours later.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
