OK. So. First mike, I think i got some splinters from that 2 x 4. Second, Woog, you make a lot of sense.
Third, Mishka, I don't know how to cut him off entirely at this point. He does not have a home! I guess I could tell him that on his days he needs to spend the day at his mom and dads. It is just a little weird since the kids don't know yet.
Also I told him last night we needed to write up our Jan. schedule and that means since he will have his house by then we should start our 'real' visitation schedule. He said he prob. won't be able to have the kids at his house immediately b/c of the renovations he will need to do. (He bought a crappy house!)
I am sure he thinks he can come to the house to do his 'time' with the kids. If he has to put them to bed at night and doesn't have anywhere to sleep, they will have to sleep at my house...
Thoughts on how to enforce the boundary when he doesn't have a place to take the kids. Thanks.
Second, Woog, you make a lot of sense.