Had to 'see' STBX last night, she claimed the car "locked itself" after she closed the door to warm it up last night so she needed my copy of the keys.
Me being a former certified technician and having torn the doors on the car apart before, I know the car does not have auto locking capability, but what ever.
STBX came in the house calling my name out asking where I was like it was any 'normal' day. Still had the same sad puppy dog type eyes that she can't hide her true feeling from me. No R or M conversation. Didn't get a thank you, kiss my a** or anything of the sort. Just that sad empty look. Might have to do with the fact that over the weekend I got a good amount of packing done so all my collectables in the basement bar were gone with nothing but barron shelves. That and they should have received my certified letter yesterday as well.
We had a 'unpleasent' phone conversation the other night when I had asked her one last time if I should send my letter to vacate certified or if she or FIL will sign my copy as received. She blew up on me me after asking me 'why are you doing all this legal stuff to me?' and I replied 'you say you're taking the kids away from me as well as demanding support, do you think I'm honestly going to take that laying down?'. So she started to hoot and holler and I hung up.
S10 reminded her of a injury I sustained on Sunday walking to the bowling alley and slipped on some ice, streched both hamstrings pretty well and dislocated my toe. She actually showed concern, pretty strange.
Had a weird dream of her last night sending e-mails begging me to take her back. Funny thing is most of my dreams about anything lately end up begin a deja vue moment in 'real' life. I still think it's going to come down to the eleventh hour on this, standing in court when she'll come around. That or when OM books after realizing what he's fully in for should they go forth with this "engagement".
On a positive, after all my diligent work to restore my credit after 10 years of her dragging it through the mud, I got approved for a car loan as I'll be needing one here in a month. That feels nice, especially seeing how stringent creditors are right now with the economy the way it is.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11