BBJ - Just to be clear. I'm not suggesting you actually allow him to always do this stuff for you, just don't be hostile toward him when he does do it. You didn't ask him to do it, he just took it upon himself. Once he's doing it, no point is snatching at the shovel and telling him to get lost. That's all I meant. You can't kill yourself trying to get to everything that needs to be done in order to keep Dan from doing it first.
You're going to have a hard time keeping him from doing these things until you tell him to hand over his keys and only allow him to pick up the kids and take them elsewhere when it is his time with them. As long as he is allowed inside your home, he will feel it is still his as well.
Either cut him off from access to you and the kids whenever he feels like it or continue to let him cake-eat and keep spinning because of it. The choice is yours and yours alone.
You're so strong BBJ! You can do this! You the wo-man!!!!!!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
