I agree with Mike. What I can tell you from my sitch is that actions are what really makes them listen.
and what I can tell you from my sitch is if Dan was done long ago then he is done and he won't be back. The key to all this is the LBS having a "sack" big enough to pull the trigger and move forward and if they are truly done then finding it in yourself to make your own happiness and be at peace with being "not married".
chitt BBJ..Dan shows no loving actions at all towards you...he's been playing nice to make things civil and sounds like MIL is too..reminds me so much of Kim and her mom....
