Feel free to disregard but I just wanted to ask you a few things? I'm trying to push you a little here to understand what you want but I understand if you don't want to answer.
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My long term goal is to have a loving relationship with my husband and that is my only goal.
Ok, but how are you going to get there? Just go with his flow? If that is so then that is fine but what does 'having a loving relationship with my husband' mean? Does that mean he will ask me a personal question occasionally? Does ot mean he will give me a hug? Does it mean he will move back in with me?
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I will keep positive and annd continue working on myself. I do not know if he will be included in my Christmas plans yet, I hope so and things will get even better by the end of the week but I will not get my hopes up.
What will signify to you that things have 'got better'? What are you looking to see and what happens if you don't see those things but he displays other behaviour. If he ignores you are you going to ignore him?
