Thanks Tom for replying. I really dont understand the sex without marriage responbility. My H would be the first to say that that area of our relationship wasnt a problem. Maybe you can explain it. Could it be just the fact of new and exciting, something different? I told him to quit blaming me for him leaving, that he just wanted to play the field, and he said yep, and I am gonna "play". That just makes me sick! He acts as if he is young again. Here are some of the symptoms he has. *Started working out 1 year prior to leaving. I mean really working out hard. I questioned him about it and he said he was worried about his health and that was all. This started right after losing his job.
*Wanted to look nice at work. Although he was made a supervisor, so dont know about that one. I dont think it was required of him to dress in nice dress shirts though.
*Started saying sex was over rated. I really dont understand that.
*Says he just wants to be left alone and answer to no one.
*Wants to live day by day, plan nothing in advance...never been this way before.
*Attitude changes with the wind. Happy one min. then screaming the next. Unexpected anger.
*Gave up one of the things he loved most (hobby wise). Being part of fire dept. Always loved this, raised our son to be a firefighter.
*Hanging out with some younger guys. But some his age too.
*Says he is the king of his own world
*Doesnt care if no one likes him, in fact doesnt want anyone to like him at all. Laughs at the fact that someone dislikes him. (he has always been kinda like that, just not this bad).
*Says no one will ever tell him what to do EVER!!!
*Says he wants to play
*Leaves his family!!!
Now this is, to me, a true MLC....I am almost 100 percent. The question is HOW LONG is it gonna last???
