2. If you email him the format should be a) how much fun you had for Christmas and New Years Eve. (I'm thinking you are hanging out with a great bunch of new friends that you can mention) b) what time suits you best for a meet up in NYC. And how you are looking forward to seeing him c) 'Thanks for asking me about what my expectations of our friendship are. I just want to have fun, and meet new people and experience new things. I like keeping in contact with you. But I really dont want any pressure on my part or on your part'