I will also say Lisa.. wow, what a convo with you and CEO.. either he is in love with you (!) or you two are very best of friends, that he feels able to make comments to you like that. And also, how sweet and protective of him, that he would say that IHO.. you basically deserve better? Of course he would say that, like anyone in RL.. but presumably he doesnt know about DBing! Hope you are having a good evening...
Very cool conversation with CEO! You are so witty and flirtatious! I love it! I think you are playing it perfectly with CEO - I dont think it would be wise to come on any stronger, until you finalise something with H, and I know you've got to wait a bit longer until... You will know what to do when the timing is right.
thank you for all your thoughtful posts on my thread. I'm sorry I've been MIA, and not posting on your thread for a little bit, I've been taking care of everything I didn't take care of this whole semester (LOL)!! I had a sort of crazy idea about my sitch, do you think you could check my thread and let me know what you think, when you get a chance? I promise to post soon. I am reading....
Hi L! I just checked FB and got your message. Will try and find you! How cool that we are online at the same time? fingers crossed my internet connection doesnt go dodgy! xxxxxxxx
Elevator shoes, twins, love!! LOL you guys!! I seriously don't think CEO is in love with me (Al- you old romantic!), or even that he sees himself as my good friend. On the other hand, he's the only one who's really ever said that they H isn't man enough for me. I was thinking about that quite a lot this weekend.
CEO and I went out for lunch today- I said I thought it was his turn to buy and at first he said he was in a hurry and a bad mood, but then after speaking for a couple of minutes said he'd take me out. Mainly normal conversation- his book he wants to write, and his plans to go on holiday and get a short haircut (I told him I didn't like it short so we'll see what he does). He also said I should stay for February and he'd find a way to pay me for the extra month. Fingers crossed, but I'm still going to look around for a new job if I can find one. This morning I think I saw him go on a dating website- I think if he was interested in me he probably wouldn't do that, so at least that's a question answered. *sigh*
H sent me an e-mail about 10 minutes ago telling me about his Christmas party. His tone seems different again, but there's a lot of detail about the party and nothing about his weekend. He also didn't ask me any questions- just says he hopes I'm having a good day. I'll probably send a shortish reply a bit later today, although I can't really be bothered.
And that's all the news from H and CEO worlds today. Man, that CEO is such an enigma.
Lisa, check the dating site and then log on and send a request. When he sees who you are say "the computer matched you two!! Obviously the perfect match..."
Anyway, he is not an enigma at all. What would you do if your object of your lust/affection/love told you that :he is still somehow connected to his W, shows that his W would be his first choice and you would be the second choice, told you about going out on dates with other women, never expressed a thing that could be translated to anything more than a man's joy when around a pretty/smart/clever woman AND worked for you?
What would you do? K
Give him the damn green light if you fancy him!! You asked before how. Invite him somewhere during the holidays, do it properly, not work related, on a Sat night... Wear breathtaking clothes, practice your flirting techniques, show joy/hapinness for being with him. Of course, only if you interested.
Lisa, you know where I am. Sometimes, we want what we cant have, what has been refused to us, we love what we had, our memories, our broken dreams. I dont know how often it is to rebuild that connection. It seems very difficult to me. And in my case, there are 2 kids and no obvious OW, living together etc... Are you sure you could handle the reconciliation process? Sorry I am so bold, but I want to share with you what I have been learning...
Your lunch with CEO sounds nice! I'm so glad that he's going to try to find a way to keep you on for February. If you only *thought* you saw him go on a dating site.. maybe he is just trying to console himself because he can't have you? Why else would he be ... showing you his cabinets?
I had a bit of a rough 24 hours, when you have time could you pop over to my thread?
You are just too popular! 
