hey sweets, I was so happy for you reading your earlier post, then the part about your son came up and I was sad again to hear you were feeling so bad. It never fails, once we get up and we find out footing we get knocked down by a new difficulty.
I too often forget that my own son is a little man in the making and that what I've learned about men through my trial by fire applies to my little man too.
And yes, as naej said, most teens enter a horrible stage in which you wonder which planet they came from. Praying for patience your way honey, be that happy woman you are finding is there, stay your ground, at some point your son will see you set boundaries for his own good, prob not anytime soon but you are doing the best for him even if he doesn't see that.
Hugs)))))))))))) I'm confident you can have a wonderful christmas hon.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.