We have just been chit chatting back and forth, he has been asking more personal questions about my new job, etc...so good so far. I don't know what my steps are I am just going with the flow. I have no more short term goals as I would only set myself up for disappointment. My long term goal is to have a loving relationship with my husband and that is my only goal.
I will keep positive and annd continue working on myself. I do not know if he will be included in my Christmas plans yet, I hope so and things will get even better by the end of the week but I will not get my hopes up.