Is she is or is she ain't (my baby)?

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This is freeing in a way because I now feel this whole thing has less to do with me than I had realized (before tonight). I have little to do with it at all.

You are right, this is not about you, you are only the target of it. It's the same in my case and in several other people on here.

you may think that you have no control but you do. You can control yourself and how you act. Use that to build attraction and to show your W that you can offer her the support she needs