Frank, Have you ever read any of Anthony Robbins stuff? He writes a lot about changing your attitude and how you think about yourself and your world.
This is my second Christmas since sep. In a lot of ways the first Christmas sucked because I wanted it to suck. I had in my mind that it was going to and it became self fulfilling. This year I will still miss my W being there but I'm going to have a good time with my kids and my family. I know W is not going to have a good Christmas but it is by her own making and she has to learn what her actions have cost her. I say this because I think it is the same for your W. She has to learn the cost of her actions.
You have the opportunity to spend Christmas with your kids. That makes you the lucky one. I hope that you find appreciation in that and enjoy your Christmas.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford