ok...relieved to find out from L that wife did not request to change her name. Not sure why that bothered me so much, I guess it's just the finality of it all.
I had to email W today about a work trip I had and if she could watch the kids for a couple of my days. got a long reply email in her nicest tone.....however, when I got to the 'whats best for the kids' line, I quit paying attention. I equate that too 'whats best for W'....
Of course when I ask for her to watch the kids when I'm gone for work, resulting in me not seeing my kids for 12 days...she replies back with three requests of her own. Classic.
I'm not going to reply. I'm not going to drink any crown either, I'm all out.