Ahhhh, I got kin in that body!

[optimistwife]

Hello T,

I've been following your thread and just wanted to jump in...

what your friend said may have a lot of truth- but it doesn't mean that it is the truth in your situation! A lot of people are great at dishing out advice, but then you pointed out yourself that he really is quite unsuccessful at any relationships.

I would just regroup and go forward with your plans for January. See where it goes! Sometimes it is darkest before the dawn. And maybe it is darkest before the end too- but you don't know that yet.

I hope your visit brings both you and him clarity in your hearts.