Thanks for posting. GG, I have not, in the 18 months since the bomb, except for maybe 5 or 6 times, ever said anything to my h that was disrepectful or unkind.

As I said, I could have handled the money thing a bit better. But, I have for the most part been exceedingly patient, thoughtful and respectful to a fault. Except for those 5 or 6 times, no angry words have been spoken, no names have been called, no accusations have been made.

So, in that area, I am doing pretty well, I think.