Thank you AmyC...I am honored to hear from you. I learned a lot from your thoughts on Frank's thread. I was where he is about 18 months ago.

I am loggin in tonight to record the facts that:

No lawyer mail/phone calls today. yea!! When can I get my retainer back???

No contact from H for me or for the kids.

No different than any other day....other than bdays, halloween, easter, xmas and fourth of july....maybe father's day.

Other than scheduled soccer games, those are the only days we hear from him....I am not lieing.

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home