Ok...for your question on your work luncheon I would say walk in there with your head high and your tasty lasagna and do a complete 180 in front of both of them. Act like they don't even exist in the room. Go around and talk with everyone, laugh, flirt, and they will be the ones to feel totally uncomfortable. This is what I would do. They are the ones who should be ashamed NOT YOU!!! YOU did nothing wrong!! They are the ones doing the wrong!!
I would even go as far as to walk up to my H and ask him if he wanted some lasagna! Say it with a smile right in front of her because she would not be able to do or say anything without risking their secret. She has already ran from you remember??LOL
Do it with pride and with self-confidence. Absolutely no one can take that from you.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
