I have just been reading posts....it has been four months now...xmas is next week...I backslid and asked H to come over with his son on xmas day for dinner. He said thanks for the invite but that he already had plans at his house that day and said maybe he could see D16 after xmas but that he did not have a gift for her because he is broke.
Unbelievable.....
So, I am pretty bummed about it. I'm not looking forward to next week. I have not even started shopping for presents. I had some unexpected expenses these past few weeks so money will be short to buy stuff. I have to wait until this Friday to do anything.
When does this stupid fog lift??? When do they wake up??
The divorce papers that he filed will be dismissed Jan. 1st because he did not serve me properly and he doesn't have the money to pay for a process server. His comment was "guess I will be married to you for a long time?"
I keep telling myself to wait until the 6 month mark which will be in February. Basically that is how long the first affair lasted. Not sure about this one......I think the OW is getting tired of all the financial problems he has. We will see....
I started my dance class though! It has been fun. I will be going to the school's holiday party tomorrow.
Just breathe.......
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
