I can fully understand your frustration about your wife not allowing you a chance to try and work this out, my wife said the exact same thing. It is a common thread on here. Just let that go. You can beat yourself up over this forever. It just does not matter.She had been thinking about leaving you for sometime, she just did not bother too let you know.My wife is also changing back to her maiden name. I asked her why, she said she did not think I would want her to have my name, becuase of what my first wife did. ?????, I just let it go.It did hurt, for a week or so.
My second Christmas with this whole mess also.She will probably tag along when we go to grandmas house.Then she is leaving to go see her mother in Washington State.One day at a time.Let go of the anger, have a peaceful Christmas.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
