WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice III

[FaithfulH]

Feel bad, but why should I put my financial needs behind hers?

One reason, what is He telling you to do? I remember 2 or 3 weeks after the bomb I told a friend I was going to "tell W what had to happen financially if she pursued the D". This friend said to me, "Is this a God-thing....or a FaithfulH thing?" I never brought up finances with my W. You may be hearing differently in your sitch...I don't know....just make sure it is not a LonelyD thing.

I am going to tell her she wil have to pay me $10 a week for health insurance and put her on a payment plan for car. Oooh, it hurt like hell to bend like that...The $10 goes into a bank account to help offset the deductible, I am not being mean, it will help her out, just don't want to tell her that...

Sorry, sounds LonelyD-ish to me....