sort of in your shoes, I wish I had kids with me more, then again they do need their dad. It is SOOOO hard to let go, to know that I can't control how my kids are taken care of when they are with their dad. Karen is right, she needs to learn to be a mother, and for better or worse she is their mom.
I hope that my kids have a good R with their dad, he doesn't take care of them like he I'd like, but he is with them and I'm trying to see this as a positive thing.
My kids also go back and forth every other Sunday, but we have set a schedule and they are used to it and don't complain, from what I've learned it is the stress they see between parents that affect them most.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.