I guess the problem I am having is that I know H CAN be a good man. He was for 7 years and then it was just like a switch flipped. If he is the same way with this woman that he was with me for the first seven years then I can see why she feels he is so great. And, if he can be this way with her, then why not me? I just don't understand his meanness and hatred towards me nor his avoidance. Ugh, just thoughts that go through my head. I try not to think about it for the most part.
I am a little torn about new guy right now. For whatever reason, he is getting on my nerves. He really is one of the nicest people I have ever met. However....maybe he is TOO nice)...can someone be too nice? I feel like he agrees with everything I say, and I don't think he would say what he REALLY thinks. He is also very routine and the routine is starting to get to me, and he is VERY predictable. He does have very good qualities too and I feel extremely comfortable around him. IDK, maybe I should cool things off with him a bit.
On the work front, talked to my boss yesterday and he thought the new position would be a good opportunity for me. Soooo, I talked to the VP again today and he said he was very excited and that he couldn't think of a better person to move into that position. He wants me to officially move on January 12th, which is much sooner than I had anticipated. It will mean a lot more work, but will also be a lot more interesting.
