Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

Julia, Your suggestion is definately the DB way. Guess I need to think about what is my goal??? I do want this to be his decision, his lead not mine. I want him to say in court the M, cannot be repaired. I want my name back & the curse of his last name gone. I want to show him we can work together.

Maybe after we D he will finally realize that all his problems are still there. They didn't go away because he D'd me. What do ya think?