Ok I called W today and asked her why she was annoyed with me, she said it was because I attempted a "dawn raid" this morning which she quickly repelled, and it woke her out of her sleep. In fact she has told me now that under no circumstance must I touch her in the mornings and wake her out of her sleep. All this from the woman who used to wake me out of my sleep at 5am for sex.
Anyway I said that didn't account for her being annoyed last night, well she said that was due to me coming in late and she didn't know where I was, in fact she reminded me that I had promised to give her a massage before bed time and she had drank a glass of sherry to lossen up and get in the mood. But when I explained that I wasn't extremely late and there was still time could for a massage and she could have reminded me. she said that cos I was late and she was annoyed and she just went off the idea. ( from the look on her face a massage was never on at that point).
I then said to W "look we have a communication problem we should talk about these things". To which she replied there is no way we are sitting down and discussing any of our issues. In fact if I want to discuss anything I can sit in an empty room and discuss them with myself. Make of that what you will (drama and BS in my opinion). But despite what was said the conversation was done in a cordial manner.
Later in the morning my PC was taken away by our IT dept and in my job no PC means no work can be done, so I pulled a half day holiday, phoned W and met her for lunch, we had a light snack and polite conversation all very pleasent.
This sort of up and down used to really confuse me and make me retreat into my cave, but now it just makes me wonder.
