kat, I come across people, nearly on a daily basis, that mostly encourage me to keep on doing what I'm doing. Others encourage moving on. My marriage MAY, and thats a big MAY, have a chance, but I'm not going to hold my breath. I think I've been holding onto something that just isn't there anymore. On both sides.
I actually am doing both, or trying to. I'm DBing for me and the kids, and moving on mentally in my mind. Going forward without my H. I can't really 100% move on completely until after D though, but I think I'm 99% there. But I don't even think about H as an option: I mean if I did I probably wouldn't be interested really. You should probably stop hoping or spending too much time analyzing your W or whatever. She will probably be interested in reconciling with you at some point I think, but you can't live life like that waiting for someone to wake up that may never. It's like I would love to win the lottery one day, but I can't base a good chunk of my life on that... Karen
