For the Guy with Kids and a WW Twenty One

[hopeful4her]

kat, I come across people, nearly on a daily basis, that mostly encourage me to keep on doing what I'm doing. Others encourage moving on. My marriage MAY, and thats a big MAY, have a chance, but I'm not going to hold my breath. I think I've been holding onto something that just isn't there anymore. On both sides.

It is very cathartic to come here and post, but it also keeps me thinking about things too much, I think.

karen, I guess you should keep those kids after all. What a sweet, sweet thing to tell you. That would have made me tear up. I think my wife will someday realize everything.

Only problem is, it's not going to be soon and pretty sure it's going to be too late, because I've decided that I'm not waiting on her anymore. I've reached my point. Never thought I'd say that, and it was such a small thing to have made me get there. That last call from OM she took in my presence.

Like your feeling, we ARE going to be good either way. Everything will work for the best for us. I just wish the kids weren't casualties.


The wife called last night. I let D11 answer it. She talked to the girls. Later in the evening, I sent her an IM. I don't thinks she was online, but I sent it anyway.

"Let me know what you want to do for Christmas. Having the kids Christmas Eve or Christmas day, so we can make plans."

No response yet, but I don't have IM at work. I do know she is off today and will be picking up D7 from school today.