Kelsey...I don't want it to get ugly either. I'm praying for that, and I'll do my part to keep it clean. Thanks!!! And, yes, BG is a cool lady!!! And, she's done some amazing things.
KJ, the original plan was for me to file for divorce using my attorney and the settlement he and I agreed to. She would be my attorney, and he just wouldn't have one...he didn't feel he needed one until he took the kids to the movie with OW and I made a stink about it. All along, he and I both felt that his getting an attorney would push things in a more confrontational direction. And, his point about the attorney not liking me was his way of confirming that to me last night.
It still may happen the way we had planned...we've got the settlement worked out. But, yesterday he made threats about trying to get more time with the kids and stuff we hadn't talked about. If he goes that route, it won't be as nice as I would have liked.
I still think we can get through it without too much ugliness. We ended last night in a civil tone. He stands to lose a lot more financially if he pushes. He's got a good deal, and I don't think he'd jeopardize that just so she can spend time with my boys. The whole thing can be final in 60 to 90 days.
Thanks for the prayers. We all need all of those we can get!!!
Hugs to you guys! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
