Do you know I was thinking what I would do in your sitch and if my h asked for my help with the d and I had made it clear it was up to him and that I was not having any part other than signing the papers. I would probably turn round and say something like you have faith that he is fully capable of sorting out all the paper work. I personally would put it back onto him. Jmo - you know him better than me and I am probably thinking more of my h.
