FIB,

Does anyone here....ever..move past THIS part of the sadness? The pain that the kids go thru?

I wish I could tell you yes. But in my heart, I don't believe we ever do. Maybe it will wane in time. I know I will never get past this part of the sadness. My children deserved better and they were pretty much grown up when our world came crashing down. Your children are still small and may be better able to adapt. Bottom line. Children of divorce are always damaged by the disintegration of their nuclear family...whether they are 5 or 50.

I wish it were not so.

Hugs,
Spitty


Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest.
Mark Twain