Like I told Beej this morning, I am determined to drop her. I'm just not sure if its because I can't stand her anymore or if I'm DBing.
I keep feeling nothing but contempt for her. Not good if I was trying to save a marriage. And Puppy's sitch sure is making me think, too. Trying to figure out if it's better to try to salvage the R or the marriage, because the marriage seems like a goner.
I feel like that too, but I've decided to work even harder on DBing. Not for my H for sure. For me and the kids. You know I think our WAS at some point will wake up or come out of the fog or whatever and realize what they've done. My D9 keeps saying lately: can't believe Dad's divorcing you b/c you're pretty, smart, funny, nice, etc. (yeah, I'll keep her around ) I think at some point that our WAS are going to realize that, and most of us will be over them. But I don't worry about H anymore. Know I'll be fine no matter what. Maybe I'm being foolishly optimistic, but I like to think we all are going to be great!!! Karen
) I think at some point that our WAS are going to realize that, and most of us will be over them. But I don't worry about H anymore. Know I'll be fine no matter what. Maybe I'm being foolishly optimistic, but I like to think we all are going to be great!!! Karen
