may be his "one true love"?

[AliSuddenly]

Hey there,

I understand what its like to genuinely love someone and be hurt and blindsided when they make you feel like they checked out a long time ago!

The way he has behaved is very hurtful.. he neednt have made those remarks to you, he could have spared you, but of course you still love him, its understandable. You dont give any details of age, how ling you were M etc, whether he is at an age where he may be having some sort of crisis?

It does sound like he has spent a long time making his decision and waiting, like you say..and time will tell if that gamble will pay off for him.. but its not really healthy to swop one woman for another in that way, like a monkey swinging vine to vine as someone said to me. Give us some more details and take care..

Al