It has been a bit over 2 weeks now since I gave my official pronouncement to my husband that I still love him, respect him and believe in us. I said it because I believe it, but also because I sensed he was on the verge of giving up.
It ended up being the right move!
I can't believe where we are now!
It feels like a honeymoon again. We say I love you all the time, are free to touch eachother without reservation, share our days, and the little things that used to turn into big things seem to stay little.
We are gradually making plans for our future together, starting with H's interviews in January. Wherever he ends up I will be happy to go along... On our trip we are going to visit the place where we were married. At his suggestion.
He is now doing nice things for me. After wishing all these months (and even last month when I had my stupid root canal) that he would be there for me, he suddenly is! He is getting little surprises for me, and this morning made breakfast for us.
In a few days will be 6 months since he moved out, so I guess it is really true that you can figure about a month for each year you've been together (6 yrs).
Haven't posted in a while- so will take a while to catch up.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
