Thanks, Gypsy. I'm very excited about this, and she is too, which makes it great. We have both been lonely for a long time.
STBX has NOT gone away however. D18 is home from school, and has one of the cars from the fleet currently at my old house. She backed into a car owned by a friend last Friday. No one hurt, no alcohol involved, no police. The kid she hit originally said he didn't want to involve the insurance company. There was no damage to our vehicle. I did nopt tell STBX. Why? No damage, no injury, the kid wasn't interested in involving the insurance company. I guess in hindsight, I should have told her, but EVERYTHING is a NIGHTMARE with her.
Well, the kid now demands the car be fixed. It's a pece of sh*t Honda, and he'll just pocket the $1300. STBX went thorugh the ceiling: "According to the Parenting Plan, you are required to call me for all significant actions involving the kids." I stated, OK, but at the time, there was no injury, no damage to our car, and originally no demand for payment. She then follows on with "Since she was with you, you handle it". D18 is insured on W's policy. So I thought "handle it" meant to well.....handle it. I called her insurance company and opened a claim. What else to do, right. As I am talking to the agent, he said "There's already an open claim from Dec 9th re: D16 and Smarmylawyerboss' Jeep." D16 had rear ended a vehicle AND STBX NEVER TOLD ME!
I proceeded to email STBX with the claim information. Here are the two emails I got back from the psycho bi*ch from hell:
You called my insurance carrier? What possible right do you have to do that? If I want to make a claim on my insurance that is my decision not yours. I assume you will pick up the increase in the rates. By calling my insurance carrier you’ve forced me into an expense I can’t afford. Handle it doesn’t mean pass it off
NUMBER 2 email:
Put her on your insurance immediately.
MY DECISION: If I put her on my policy, I give STBX less money per month.
