Thanks HD...The over thinking goes back to my science background, chemistry major in school.
Going along with working on myself, I just realized my wife and I have some assets we have to sell in the next few months, She called about them the other day. She trying to figure out if it's better if we sell them as a couple or indv. I KNOW it's better for me to do it as individuals and hurts me if we do it as a couple and get divorced. It's the opposite for her. I told her if it's better for her to do together I'd do that, now I'm wondering if I should have told her I'd think about it and run the numbers. It's not a ton of money probably $1k-$1500/mo over three years. She's a physician so it's not like my kids would go without if she didn't have that money...
It's the over thinking again I can see pluses and minuses each way.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."