Now She's Confused.

[sleeper]

Bottom line is you gotta do what is right for you, Jeff.

You've very focused on your W now which is totally normal at this stage and I am often guilty of myself. It's hard to accept the fact that you will have no effect on what she does. From reading your posts it seems as if you are questioning your actions based upon the belief that what you do or don't do will affect her decisions.

Detatching ain't easy. It's hard to remove yourself from someone when they have your heart (we kinda need our hearts, ya know?). But if you don't detatch you will find yourself as confused as she is.

It's like setting a course based on information from a broken GPS. The course will be just as broken as the GPS. She's broken now, messed up (just as mine told me she told you so). Base your actions on her and your actions will be broken, messed up.

Don't do anything because of an expected outcome with W. Do it because you want to or don't do it because you don't want to. Heck isn't that the way everyone if asked would like to live their life anyway?

IMHO, Sleeper.