I've just followed you around and seen how you don't pull the punches any more (no more sugar candy).
I guess from what I've seen on these boards and it also to my sitch is that things work themselves out in their own time, be it a D or reconsile. If W is just confused at the moment, then my actions may help to un-confuse her, If she wants a D my actions can only delay that, if she wants to reconsile then I can only make things better.
