This is a personal thing, and a carryover from when I worked there. There was always a scapegoat for all the problems, and for the last several years I worked there it was me. Eventually they told the pastor enough lies about me that I was forced out. I could do nothing right, even in retrospect; I was "mobbed" and it was very clear workplace bullying. When I left, I heard over and over from the people I worked with (not the staff) that I had been the perfect person for the job, they couldn't imagine the parish without me, etc. I'm getting Christmas cards from folks thanking me and telling me how much I'm missed.
And now it continues with my daughter. I hate to transfer schools; she's been there since she was 4, all her friends are there, it's her whole world and everything else has changed in her life. But I'm seriously considering it, because she's going to be singled out for this kind of nonsense. Not by teachers, but by the principal. And I pay tuition for this kind of treatment.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012