A little down. My W's cousin is living with me right now. His w left him and he was terribly hurt by that (he has 2 little girls). He is not happy with my W's choices and pretty much says it like it is to her, but not at my prompting. He's coming from his own hurt.
W however is upset with me. I believe that this is the cause, but won't know for sure until she tells me. (Or accuses me... which is likely the way in which she will address it.)
It all came to a head last night because I am going out of town today and I had wanted to eat as a family. Everything started out well enough, but I made a mistake. I suggested W talk about the beach trip to D that she had been invited to after Christmas with one of her friends at work. D told W she already knew about it. Of course I had mentioned it to D, but did not realize W had not said anything to her about it.
So W was pissed at me, acting like 'what are you trying to do, asking me to tell her this, when you already told her ?' shaking her head in disgust.
Well, it ruined the evening for me. I tried to talk about it, all she would say was there was 'something else' that was bothering her.
After talking with cousin, I think that she thinks I am prompting him to goad her.
Pretty crappy. Well I gotta get on the road.
Thanks for asking!
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09
